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Date and®

Try it for free

The alternative to online dating

Date and is for open-minded singles who want to meet new people in real life – relaxed, easygoing, and fun.

Whether it’s hiking, playing pool, enjoying an apéro, or barhopping:

Our singles experiences bring you together with people who, like you, are looking for more than small talk in an app.

  • Icon 1 experience, that’s just right for you
  • Icon 2 age groups: 30 – 43 years and 40 – 53 years
  • Icon Up to 20 singles from your area
  • Icon No profiles, no chats – just show up!
  • Icon Casual group vibe - no 1:1 pressure
  • Icon Zero pressure - just stay as long as you're having fun!

It was my first singles event and it was fun.

- Christian S., verified participant

I will definitely do it again.

- Almir A., verified participant

Best dating event, great program, wonderful people.

- Tanja H., verified participant

Why Date and?

With so many online and offline dating options out there, finding the right one for you can be tough. Here’s why Date and is the right choice:

A variety of experiences – not just one-size-fits-all dating

Whether you're in the mood for an after-work apéro in a cozy location, a light hike through nature, a relaxed pool night, or a barhopping tour with other singles – at Date and we’ve got all that and more!

Sign up for our newsletter to stay up to date on our latest singles experiences!

Up to 20 singles at each event

At our different singles experiences, you’ll meet up to 20 singles from your area. We make sure to maintain a balanced gender ratio.

Come on your own or bring a single friend – however you prefer.

If you’re booking together, please leave us a quick note with your companion’s name so we can plan the group composition accordingly.

Anything goes, nothing’s a must

Our goal is for you to have a fun time!

Whether you're enjoying nature, laughing over a game of pool, or toasting with other singles on a barhopping tour – we want you to have fun.

If you meet someone you'd like to see again – great! If not, that’s totally okay too.

Either way, you’ll meet new people and enjoy a memorable experience.

With Date and, you’ve got nothing to lose.

Plenty of time – zero pressure

No matter which of our singles experiences you choose, you'll always have several hours to enjoy relaxed conversations and get to know others naturally.

But if you feel like the chemistry just isn’t there, you're free to leave the group at any time.

That said, we encourage you not to make that call too quickly – sometimes the best moments happen when you least expect them, even if there's no spark.

Real people, in real life

No AI-generated bios, no staged photos, and no premium memberships unlocking more profiles.

At Date and, you meet people in person. You hear their voice, read their body language, get a feel for their humor – and instantly sense if there’s chemistry.

Authentic connections

No profiles, no chats, no matches, no ghosting. The only digital thing we use is our website.

Not because we’re anti-tech – but because we believe many things work better online, just not dating.

Get to know each other naturally. If you hit it off, exchange numbers and meet again.

No awkward silence

You’ll always meet in a group setting. No forced one-on-one situations where you need to come up with questions to keep the conversation going.

Talk to whoever you want, about whatever you want – whenever you feel like it.

Easy and effortless

No prep needed – we take care of all the planning. You’ll receive all the info via email.

Just show up and have fun!

What’s the schedule like?

You don’t need to create a profile or prepare anything in advance. All you need is a ticket for your chosen experience. We’ll send all the rest directly to your inbox.

Here’s how it works – in 4 simple steps:

1. Your ticket

Choose your preferred experience and complete the booking.

During the booking process, you’ll have the option to share a few details about yourself: name, age, profession, and something interesting about you. These details are optional and may be published on our website. They give you and others a little preview of who else is joining the experience.

Right after booking, you’ll receive an confirmation e-mail – this is your ticket and secures your spot.

2. 20% off your next booking

Share a 20% discount with a friend. A pop-up window will appear automatically after your booking.

This step is optional, but if your friend uses the code to book, you’ll also get 20% off your next experience.

3. The agenda

The day before the experience, you’ll receive all the details via email – including the exact meeting point and time.

If you have any questions before that, feel free to contact us through the contact form. We usually respond within 24 hours.

4. Have fun

Show up at the meeting point at the specified time, enjoy your day or evening, meet other singles in a relaxed setting, and just have a great time.

If you feel like exchanging numbers with someone – go for it.

If you’re simply there to enjoy the vibe and meet interesting people – that’s just as perfect.

Anything goes, nothing’s a must.

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Bern
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